Thursday, July 30, 2015
Remind Yourself Why You were Angry Before You Get Carried Away by it
Wednesday, December 24, 2014
Is Sleeping at the Office Legally Allowed in Japan?
Thursday, August 07, 2014
What If I Were A Muslim?
A memory from 2013 recently resurfaced in my mind, one that still makes me pause and reflect on human behavior. I was in transit at Hong Kong airport, coming from Dubai with Tokyo as my final destination. The airport was undergoing renovations, and I felt a bit disoriented while navigating the corridors toward my gate.
As I walked, a woman in a professional suit gently called me over from a corner, joined shortly by a man. It quickly became clear—they were immigration officers on special duty. I prepared myself for questions, as I had faced similar encounters many times before.
The exchange went something like this:
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Woman: Where are you from?
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Me: India
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Woman: No, I mean where you are coming from now?
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Me: Dubai, for a business meeting
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Man: Where are you going?
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Me: Tokyo
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Woman: Do you live in Japan?
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Me: Yes
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Man: Where is your family?
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Me: They are also in Japan
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Man: Do you have a Japanese identity card?
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Me: Yes (handed over my Alien Registration Card)
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Man: Please show your passport.
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Man: What is your name?
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Me: Jayaprakash (full name as in passport)
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Man (curiously): So, you are not a Muslim?
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Me: No
After this, he handed back my passport with a smile and wished me a pleasant journey. Throughout the encounter, both officers were polite, gentle, and occasionally smiled to ease the situation. I remained calm, careful not to escalate or show frustration—it’s part of their job, after all.
But as I walked to my gate, a thought struck me: what would have happened if I were Muslim? I didn’t dwell on it long; speculation rarely ends well. Yet, the question lingered.
This memory resurfaced because of a story from an Egyptian friend. He is a general manager of a U.S.-based company in Japan and travels frequently to the U.S. Every time he lands, he is sent to a separate room for questioning. The same officer handles him each time, recognizing him well—but there is no concession. The reason, he believes, is that his name signals a certain religious identity.
These incidents illustrate something subtle but powerful: bias exists everywhere. It might be based on religion, nationality, skin color, or other markers. Sometimes it’s unconscious, sometimes institutional. Denying it is easy and common—but acknowledgment is far more constructive than denial or dismissal.
Bias is part of human nature. What matters is how we recognize it, reflect on it, and ensure it doesn’t dictate our actions or cloud our judgment.
Monday, April 28, 2014
A Fresh and Rejuvenating Restart
I realized the importance of this blog when I was away from here for almost two years. You may wonder why? This is the sixth anniversary of this blog. I started writing this blog just for fun at first and then went curious to learn 'the new platform' from where I could address. Over the past six years (including the two years of absence) I learned that the posts I wrote here were useful to many people.
Many of the visitors to this blog asked for vital information to frame their life changing decision. There may be some online resources for getting general information about Japan and the cost of living. The prime purpose of starting this blog six years before was not to write about the cost of living in Tokyo. One of my friends in Singapore asked me the details of expenses in Tokyo for her article in a magazine. After sending the details to her, I thought of sharing excerpts of that content in this blog. Somehow the search engines brought many visitors to this post.
There may be other online resources for cost of living in Tokyo. Nature of expenditures for a foreigner is different from that of a Japanese national living here. It is quite natural for people who get job in Japanese companies to go curious about Japan and the cost of living. People are eager to get some useful information, especially when they are far away from the place where they have to go and make a living. Though, there aren't any obligations, there may be a factor of social commitment to each individual to be useful with one's neighbors. In an online social platform such as this blog, every visitor is close at the length of a hand that we can feel his presence in front of our eyes.
This prompts me to restart this blog. I don't make any commitments. This blog was born on a golden week. This is the sixth golden week since then. This is the spring season and once again the nature outside has robed herself in floral dresses. The air is fresh and rejuvenating and I feel this is a good time for a restart.
Friday, March 21, 2014
Shunbun-no-hi, the Day People Offer Food to the Departed Souls
Spring starts after the Shunbun-no-hi, and the weather becomes warmer. In other words, this period marks the end of the winter season. The tradition of observing the Haru-no-higan originated from Buddhist beliefs. Higan means another world. When the day and night become equal in length, Buddha appears on earth to guide the stray souls to the path of nirvana.Tuesday, March 12, 2013
Memories of a Traumatic Disaster
Tuesday, May 22, 2012
Solar eclipse in Tokyo – a rare celestial meeting
Tuesday, May 08, 2012
Regain Waning Romance in Koishikawa Korakuen Garden
Monday, December 19, 2011
Programming the crowd by conditioned reflexes
At first the scientists selected a group of 5 monkeys and put them in a cage. In the middle of the cage they placed a ladder. At the top of the ladder, they placed some bananas. Obviously, the monkeys will be tempted to eat the bananas. One of the monkeys climbed up the ladder and took the banana. Then the scientists splashed cold water on other four monkeys standing on the ground. Splashing of water was repeated whenever a monkey climbed and took the banana. The monkeys now realized that whenever a monkey climbs the ladder, the rest will be splashed with cold water, which they did not like. All the five monkeys one by one tried to climb to take the banana, but the one who try to climb would be punished by beating by other four monkeys.
As a next step, scientists replaced one of the monkeys with a new monkey. The new one’s mind was fresh and did not know about the cold water splashing. By seeing the banana he started climbing up. The other four got angry, pulled him down and beat him. Scientists did not splash the cold water, but the fresh one got beaten by others.
Thursday, December 15, 2011
What Makes Japanese People Different from Others?
Tuesday, December 13, 2011
Japanese way of redesigning the nature and its resources
Some fifteen years before while going through a magazine article captioned ‘Future wars will be for water” I was prompted to think to redesign the natural resources so that such conflicts could be reduced. Thoughts of redesigning the natural water resources had its seed from the news on diverting the rivers through the water-scarce regions of Rajasthan state in India. India’s ever powerful lady prime minister Mrs. Indira Gandhi was ruling at that time. She had a great vision to redesign India and redefine the life. She did many attempts to achieve those goals, which the predecessors could not carry forward.
The reason why I started writing this post is not the current fight between two southern states in India for water which is in the headlines of Indian newspapers recently. While walking from Indian School in Nishi Ojima to our apartment at Higashi Ojima by the river side, we could see some construction work in progress on the river banks. Also I heard from Japanese teacher that the kyu-nakagawa river, which is visible from our apartment’s front side veranda is an artificial branch of the Arakawa river.
Thursday, December 08, 2011
What percentage of the salary a foreigner can save in Japan?
Living cost for foreigners in Japan and I believe also for Japanese people has been on the rise after March. Either people buy water from the stores. Some book online from western sides of Japan or water from outside Japan. The consumption tax will have negative impact on the potential savings.
Friday, December 02, 2011
Disaster is a fact, so is life and death
It is also a fact that, solving disasters whether manmade or natural takes long time. Any kind of disaster is a sudden transition from a balanced state to an unbalanced state, where the whole system knowingly or unknowingly goes out of a defined set of procedures. Unfortunate, but it happens. It happened in Russia, now in Japan, tomorrow somewhere else. But the thirst of human beings to experiment with their own life to find new things and progress never ceases. It is this aggression of human beings to explore and conquer nature and universe differentiates them from other creatures.
Emotion does not play a significant role in the human endeavors for scientific progression. That is how humans evolved and learned to master things around them. Strong determination to tame the nature and surrounding things in the struggle for existence (more close to the definitions of Ayn Rand than Darwin) is the foundation of modern civilizations.
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